• Marketing Framework

The Four Core Marketing Abilities

Understanding the psychology behind why customers choose you. A deep dive into Depend, Like, Relate, and Knowledge.

Four Core Marketing Abilities
  • Ability 01

Depend (Trust and Reliability)

The buyer believes the brand will reliably deliver the promised outcome with acceptable risk.

  • What this means in practice

  • Confidence that the product will work

  • Confidence that the company will exist and support them

  • Confidence there will be no hidden downside

  • How marketing builds it

  • Proof points (case studies, guarantees, uptime metrics)

  • Risk reversal (trials, warranties, SLAs)

  • Consistency in message and delivery

Without Depend: Buyers delay, default to incumbents, or choose “safe” alternatives.

  • Like 02

Definition

The buyer has a positive emotional disposition toward the brand.

  • What this means in practice

  • The brand feels human, aligned, or admirable

  • Interaction is pleasant, not taxing

  • The buyer wants to support or associate with the brand

  • How marketing builds it

  • Tone, voice, and personality

  • Visual identity and aesthetics

  • Values signaling and storytelling

Without Like: Buyers choose purely on price or convenience.

  • Relate03

Definition

The buyer sees themselves, their problem, or their context reflected in the brand’s message.

  • What this means in practice

  • “This is for someone like me”

  • The problem framing matches lived experience

  • The brand speaks the buyer’s language

  • How marketing builds it

  • Clear segmentation and persona focus

  • Use-case–driven messaging

  • Industry- or role-specific examples

Without Relate: Buyers disengage, even if the product is objectively strong.

How the Four Abilities Work Together

Depend
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Risk
Like
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Emotional Resistance
Relate
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Relevance
Knowledge
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Confusion

A purchase occurs when all four abilities are sufficiently present.
Over-investing in one cannot compensate for the absence of another.